Nothing numbs the pain of a breakup like a rebound relationship.
Having a new person in your life shortly after a breakup makes it undeniably easier to live with.
The issue (for the rebound) is that, in most cases, the relationship serves solely the purpose of getting over the ex and was never meant to grow into anything bigger.
So what happens when the two of you are not on the same page about the relationship?
What happens when you have much bigger expectations than what the relationship could ever be?
What happens when you find out you are someone’s rebound?
Rebound relationships are more common than we actually think but they very rarely end well for both parties involved.
So better know the signs that you are in one before you get too attached and get hurt badly.
Here are my top 8 clues someone is rebounding you.
1. The relationship is moving very fast for no reason
and by that I mean he is totally in love with you in the first week or two, without getting to know you.
He already thinks you are the love of his life when he barely knows you.
He is love bombing you and It feels that it’s not really you, they are in love with you and that they are just projecting these unprocessed feelings onto you.
I am not saying that you are not a lovable person and that someone cannot fall in love with you in a short period of time, but if it feels suspicious…be careful.
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2. He is too eager to show you off
One thing that men who are bitter about their ex who broke things off like to do, is to make their ex jealous.
Their ego would not allow their ex to have the last word so in return, they want to show that they moved one super fast…
and that’s when you come at play.
A guy who is too eager to show you is suspicious to the very least.
Relationships that evolve at a normal usually would have a time where only the two people involved know…
but that’s not how rebounds work because there is an agenda.
He is with you for a purpose that is to make their ex jealous and so he has no long-term considerations for you.
3. He insists he is over the ex
From experience, someone who insists that they are something usually indicates the opposite.
When you have not asked anything about his ex, yet he finds a way to mention that he is completely over her is a red flag.
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4. He compares you to the ex
One of the biggest signs that someone is not over their ex and is using you to try and get over their ex is the constant comparison to the ex…
That’s because a man who is not over his ex is unable to think about anything else most of the time.
He sees her everywhere … He can’t help it.
So inevitably, he compares you to her because you have taken her place.
5. You don’t have much in common
He does not even seem curious about finding out if you have much in common because the whole purpose of being with you is just so that he can heal from his breakup and move on with his life.
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6. It’s all physical
There is probably nothing wrong with wanting to be intimate all the time at the start of any relationship, but when the whole relationship can be pretty much summarized in this one particular activity…you have a problem.
7. He does not go deep
He is not interested in you and finding out about what you like and what you dislike.
What are your dreams and aspirations, where you would like to be in 5 years, and how you see your life going forward, he probably does not project himself in the future with you.
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