“He pursued me at first, then suddenly he stopped chasing me and pulled away”
Does that sound familiar?
The fact that he pursued you for a period of time is already a good sign and an indication that he was interested in you at first.
So what happened? What made him make a U-turn and stop chasing you?
Well, In my experience, there are many things that could make a man suddenly no longer chase a woman but there are certainly 7 very common reasons why he stopped chasing you that I am going to list in this blog post:
1. He’s dating other people
Dating apps and technology may have made it very hard to find someone t build a real future with, but they certainly have made it extremely easy to meet new people.
Meeting a new person (and all the adrenaline rush and excitement that come with it) is literally only a swipe away.
So I would not be surprised if the guy who was pursuing you has just returned to his favorite dating app and is seeing other people at the moment.
In fact, this is probably the biggest reason why someone who was chasing you is no longer doing it.
He is busy planning on new dates and could even be focusing on a new person.
But nothing is lost just yet
…as these moves are still in the early days so you still have a chance to make a come back if you really want to if you approach it the right way. You can check out the best texting tips in this guide to make him interested and pull him back to you.
2. He’s turned off
Many of my male friends admitted to me that they were completely turned off by a small detail about a woman they were dating, and I was surprised by how often that detail was so insignificant to me and would have been so for most women.
Depending on which category your man belongs to, your little imperfection will either trigger his attraction instincts and stimulate his desire for you, or not bother him at all, or in the worst cases turn him off completely.
Men are extremely visual and they notice things that you may not even notice about yourself.
They could also be turned off by your attitude or a trait of your personality.
The common theme here is that when they get turned off, they take a step back and they stop chasing.
I heard men saying they were turned off by:
- The size of her toes
- Something about her hair
- Her natural smell (She could be perfectly clean but he did not like the natural smell of her body)
- The touch of her skin (He just does not like the feeling of her hands on his body)
- The fact that she talked too much (It got to a point where it irritated him).
He could have noticed it early on in the dating process, but he ignored it and continued pursuing you until it became omnipresent and started eliminating erotic desires he may have had for you.
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3. He feels like a backup
If you date a man for the wrong reasons ( using him as a rebound to get over your ex or using him as an option filling the void in your life until you meet someone you really like ), he will eventually feel it and realize he has been just a backup plan for you and will stop pursuing you.
Men are quite good at spotting the signs of being a rebound or a backup plan and it usually turns them off.
So ask yourself, have you been dating him for the wrong reasons?
and did your behavior show that?
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4. He doesn’t see it going anywhere
In my experience, men that I came across seems to know exactly what they want.
And it is even more true when it comes to the woman they want to be with.
While they might not know if you are the one after a few dates, but they will know if you are NOT the one for them over a short period of time.
Men will literally try to visualize a future life with you to see if they can envisage it.
And that’s when they make up their minds most of the time.
Usually, when they figure this out, they seemingly disappear or even ghosts.
5. He is scared of commitment
You may have come across as the sort of person who wants a committed relationship and he simply realized that he is not ready for any serious relationship or commitment.
It happens quite often that a man will be very much into someone but will get turned off the moment the other person considers taking to the next level and getting serious.
Commitment looks different for every man and some men can get scared of even becoming exclusive while others would only get turned off when you start talking about moving in together or being introduced to each others’ families.
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6. You played hard to get for too long
In my experience, modern men have an even lower tolerance for games particularly playing hard to get.
If you have been playing hard to get, It most likely annoyed and frustrated him and he decided that he did not want to entertain that type of dynamic.
There is a difference between playing hard to get which can come across as childish and being hard to get which comes across as high value.
This is why my advice to women is to be hard to get aka to not settle easily and to really mean it.
You can learn more about high value woman dating standards in this post.
7. He runs away because of your behavior
Too controlling, too masculine, too needy and clingy, too bossy.
these are the common complaints I hear from men about women they stopped pursuing and got turned off by.
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